Often times after you've gone through loss, there are requests for books that have been insightful or have helped in the grief journey. Here are a few with links, that have been mentioned by other users.
When you find yourself in the whirlwind as a widow or widower, you might wonder what expectations for grief are like or might feel like.
Holidays bring on their own set of big emotions and expectations, however, this list may help reduce some of the unecessary stress, and emotion.
From: Grieving: How to Go on Living When Somone You Love Dies. By Therese A. Rando, Ph.D, 1989
If you're a Facebook user, here's a list of known subgroups for Latter-day Saints Widows & Widowers.